Monday, 24 March 2008

Wedding Music Playlists, Part III

For our destination wedding, we took our iPods and portable speakers and played after the reception dinner (for background see To DJ or Not to DJ).

Here is the playlist for our wedding iPod (in random order):
  1. Reunion – Indigo Girls
  2. Beautiful Day – U2
  3. Take A Chance on Me – ABBA
  4. If I Had a $1000000 – Barenaked Ladies
  5. Stuck in a Moment (acoustic version) – U2
  6. Long Time Gone – Dixie Chicks
  7. Walk On (live version) – U2
  8. Listen to Your Heart – Roxette
  9. Friday I’m in Love – The Cure
  10. Kokomo – The Beach Boys
  11. Become You – Indigo Girls
  12. Yellow – Coldplay
  13. When The Stars Go Blue – The Corrs
  14. Boulevard of Broken Dreams – Green Day
  15. I Believe in Love – Dixie Chicks
  16. City of Blinding Lights – U2
  17. Anna Begins – Counting Crows
  18. Mona Lisas and Mad Hatters (live version) – Indigo Girls
  19. Build Me Up Buttercup – The Foundations
  20. Have You Ever Needed Someone So Bad – Def Leppard
  21. The Boy with the Arab Strap – Belle & Sebastian
  22. Take On Me – a-ha
  23. Cherish – Madonna
  24. A Sort of Homecoming – U2
  25. Water is Wide – Indigo Girls/Jewel
  26. All You Need is Love – The Beatles

Also see Wedding Music Playlists, Part I and Wedding Music Playlists, Part II.

Monday, 17 March 2008

Wedding Music Playlists, Part II

For our destination wedding, we took our iPods and portable speakers and played after the reception dinner (for background see To DJ or Not to DJ).

Here is the playlist for our wedding iPod (in random order):

  1. Sullivan Street – Counting Crows
  2. Big Yellow Taxi – Counting Crows
  3. With Or Without You – U2
  4. Nashville – Indigo Girls
  5. Calling All Angels – Train
  6. She’s Got a Way – Billy Joel
  7. 100 Years – Five for Fighting
  8. The Reason – Hoobastank
  9. Bad – U2
  10. She Will Be Loved – Maroon 5
  11. Come Away With Me – Norah Jones
  12. Stay (I Missed You) – Lisa Loeb & Nine Stories
  13. Smooth – Santana & Rob Thomas
  14. Favorite Adventure – K’s Choice
  15. Jack & Diane – John Mellencamp
  16. Miss You In A Heartbeat – Def Leppard
  17. Tainted Love – Soft Cell
  18. Let It Be – The Beatles
  19. Drift Away – Uncle Kracker
  20. When You Say Nothing at All – Ronan Keating
  21. In Your Eyes – Peter Gabriel
  22. American Pie – Don McLean
  23. Wild World – Cat Stevens
  24. Dancing Queen – ABBA
  25. U Make Me Feel Loved – Zucchero
  26. The Boys of Summer – Don Henley
  27. We Belong – Pat Benatar
  28. I Won’t Back Down – Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers
  29. Hold Me Now – The Thompson Twins
  30. Here Comes The Sun – The Beatles

Also see Wedding Music Playlists, Part I

Thursday, 13 March 2008

Wedding Music Playlists, Part I

For our destination wedding, we took our iPods and portable speakers and played after the reception dinner (for background see To DJ or Not to DJ).

Here is the playlist for our wedding iPod (in random order):
  1. All I Want is You – U2
  2. Montpelier – Girlyman
  3. Somewhere Over the Raindow – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole
  4. Rain King – Counting Crows
  5. Paino Man – Billy Joel
  6. Only New York Going On – Francis Dunnery
  7. One – U2
  8. Someday – Nickelback
  9. Crazy For You – Madonna
  10. Clare Island – Saw Doctors
  11. Sweetest Thing – U2
  12. Let Me Go Easy – Indigo Girls
  13. When She’s Around Me – James Taylor
  14. Bitter Root – Indigo Girls
  15. Give A Little Bit – The Goo Goo Dolls
  16. Gone Again – Indigo Girls
  17. Meet Virginia – Train
  18. If You Could Only See – Tonic
  19. Fireflies – Lori McKenna
  20. Share The Darkness – Saw Doctors
  21. Come To My Window – Melissa Etheridge
  22. The One I Love – REM
  23. Point Hope – Indigo Girls
  24. Come on Eileen – Dexy’s Midnight Runner
  25. Margaritaville – Jimmy Buffett
  26. Life Is a Highway – Tom Cochrane
  27. Amaze Me – Girlyman
  28. You’re Beautiful – James Blunt
  29. Postcards from Mexico – Girlyman
  30. My Girl – The Temptations

Wednesday, 5 March 2008

nothing short of an amazing wedding

Photos like this don't just happen. It takes a phenomenal photographer. Let me introduce you to Hilary Hopkins...my best friend today. She sent me just a few photos from this past weekends wedding and my jaw dropped. You can see more of her photos on Boogie-Down Brides Blog I wanted to share a few of them here, because they truly deserve double posting!

Jillian & Jonathan's Captiva Wedding Weekend was 100% gorgeous fun. Four days, Five events, and 60 guests that I'll never forget. The weekend started on Thursday with a welcome reception on Luau beach. Friday morning we cruised to Cabbage Key for lunch, the hook game (I learned the secret!) and a spontaneous game of football on the lawn. Friday night was rehearsal dinner for all the guests on the lawn under what seemed to be a bajillion stars. To make the huge lawn more intimate, we surrounded the tables with market umbrellas on their sides and added some cool lighting. Saturday was wedding day. Cocktails on the lawn overlooking the beach, ceremony on the beach, dinner on Kings Crown Lawn (in what is now the most favorite design I've ever done). It got a bit cool so we had dessert inside the dining room before heading into Boogie Down Lounge to dance the night away. Lastly, a farewell brunch on the quarterdeck over looking the yacht basin. Congrats Jonathan & Jillian a.k.a. Boogie-Down bride. I'll miss you!
Lots more photos here

Thursday, 28 February 2008

The Mark of Non-StinkinessBe Gone!


So today I was out shopping with my wedding planner colleague Mark Kingsdorf for some last minute Hollywood Fashion Tape. For those wondering...that's the tape that keeps strapless dresses in place the best. Anyhoo- so right next to the tape, I see a few packs of Gal Pal. "Hmmmm, what's this I see? It looks like something helpful!" Yep.. It is. Inside the pillow box are 2 pink sponges that remove those pesky deodorant marks that you will inevitably get at the worst possible time.

The instructions are pretty easy, wipe the deodorant away, to sum it up.
The 2 pack was $6.99, and when we tested it- they worked! So yeah- totally worth every penny. Thank you to my deodorant mark free model-intern Michelle for posing.

Wednesday, 27 February 2008

Specialist Travel Agents

The video killed the radio star. And the Internet killed the travel agent. Or so, that’s what we thought.

Like most people, several years ago we gave up on the travel agent, the paper tickets, the hassle of telephone tag and the fees travel agents charge. Like most people, we moved exclusively to web-based services. And for a while, it worked real well for us. More specifically, it worked well for very simple travel plans.

Looking back on our wedding planning experience, our single biggest time investment was researching locations and travel logistics. Looking back, we should have brought in professional travel agent who deals in destination weddings to help simplify the process. We knew we wanted the Caribbean, but it had to have reasonable flights from New York, Philadelphia, Dallas and Denver (where most of our guests were coming from). A professional travel agent could have narrowed down the field considerably and then we could decide on the location from there.

Another challenge we had was all of the guests making their own travel arrangements. The bridge’s grandmother used her favorite travel agent – and despite the very specific wording on the invitation – the agent ended up sending her to Nassau, Bahamas instead of the correct location on Grand Bahama Island.

Our concern with utilizing a travel agent is that they push the venues and packages where they make commissions or where they are most comfortable…not necessarily what is in your best interest. So, it’s critical to find a vendor you feel comfortable with.

So, we were pleasantly surprised when we discovered the Caribbean Journey Destination Wedding Blog. The woman, Laura Sangster, is a travel agent, but also planned her own Caribbean destination wedding. While, we have not actually used her to plan either our own destination wedding or any travel (so therefore cannot actually recommend her), we’ve been impressed with her thoroughness, aesthetic, and quality information. We are trying to get a scuba dive trip together for later in the year and may use her, so we’ll let you know how it goes.

When you are just starting the process, the idea of planning your own destination wedding can sound like a lot of fun – dreaming of all those fancy resorts and beautiful beaches. We thought so too, but the stress it caused between us was considerable. In retrospect, having someone help us and make the process much more manageable would have been a good idea.

Sunday, 24 February 2008

Downside to Engagement Rings

Many single women dream for the day they receive their diamond engagement ring. Yet for many people, there’s a downside to the rings.

First is the cost. Diamonds are precious, but are far from rare. In fact, the price of diamonds is propped up through a legal cartel system where the supply of diamonds is artificially restricted (although the DeBeers cartel recently settled a class action lawsuit related to its price-fixing scheme). The leading force behind this is the DeBeers diamond cartel the world’s largest supplier of diamonds, which has a near monopoly throughout the world.

As we looked into purchasing our engagement ring, we wanted a diamond that did not come from the DeBeers diamond cartel. We didn’t want a “blood diamond”—a diamond that is mind for the purpose of paying for nasty civil wars in Africa.

You can also learn more at Stop Blood Diamonds.

You can also learn more about fair trade diamonds, diamonds that are not tainted through blood and murder.